Family Experiences
What families in Melaka say about Cempaka
Short, honest accounts from the families who have used our programmes — in their own words and without embellishment.
Back to HomeFrom families who arranged a programme
These accounts reflect different family situations, different programmes, and different starting points — but a shared feeling at the end.
Faridah Hashim
Daughter, Taman Merdeka, Melaka
"My mother is 79 and lives alone since my father passed. She was managing fine during the day but I worried constantly from work. After three months of the Companionship Programme, she actually tells me she enjoys Tuesdays and Thursdays now. She never used to have anything particular to look forward to on a weekday."
May 2025 · Daytime Companionship Programme
Krishnamurti Narayanan
Son, works in KL, family in Melaka
"I'm in KL five days a week and my parents are in Melaka. The Errand & Logistics programme has removed the stress of coordinating my father's weekly needs from a distance. The confirmation messages are something I did not expect to value so much — but knowing it is done takes a weight off. The only thing I would say is the initial setup took a week or two to settle into a proper routine."
April 2025 · Errand & Appointment Logistics
Rozita Lim
Granddaughter, Bukit Baru, Melaka
"We arranged the Technology Connection Help for our grandmother so she could video call my uncle who is overseas. Siti came three times and was genuinely patient — I watched one of the sessions and she never once rushed Grandma or made her feel foolish. Grandma now calls my uncle on her own every Saturday evening."
May 2025 · Technology Connection Help
Ahmad Yusof
Son, Bandar Hilir, Melaka
"My mother kept telling me she was fine and did not need anyone. We arranged just two mornings a week to start. By the second month she was asking whether the companion could come on Fridays too. She says she had forgotten what it felt like to have someone to talk to who was not in a hurry."
April 2025 · Daytime Companionship Programme
Priya Muthusamy
Daughter, Klebang, Melaka
"The errand coordination took some getting used to on my end — I had to actually plan out what I wanted done each week instead of reacting when something ran out. But after the first month it runs itself. My father's groceries arrive on schedule and I know it is handled. The shared calendar is the part I would tell other families about first."
May 2025 · Errand & Appointment Logistics
Zulaika Rahman
Niece, Ayer Keroh, Melaka
"What I appreciated was that Norizan actually called me after the introductory visit to say what she had observed — what my aunt responded well to and what the companion would keep in mind. That kind of attention is not something I expected. I would say it is the main reason we chose to continue after the first month."
May 2025 · Daytime Companionship Programme
A closer look at three families
How each family came to Cempaka, what they arranged, and how it settled over time.
The Situation
A father living alone after his wife's passing
Mr Lim, 77, had managed independently for two years after his wife passed. His two adult children both worked in other states. The house was maintained but the days had grown very quiet, and outings to the market had become infrequent.
What Was Arranged
Companionship three mornings a week, plus weekly grocery runs
The family combined the Daytime Companionship Programme with the Errand & Logistics programme. A companion was present on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday mornings; grocery and market runs were coordinated for Tuesday.
After Three Months
A settled routine and noticeably more conversation
Mr Lim began initiating conversation topics for the morning sessions — he started a small garden on the back step which the companion helped him tend to. His children said the end-of-day notes gave them context that phone calls alone never had.
The Situation
A grandmother who wanted to see her grandchildren abroad
Puan Hamidah, 82, had two grandchildren studying in Australia. She had a tablet that family members had set up, but she had never managed to use it without someone sitting beside her. Calls happened only when someone visited.
What Was Arranged
Technology Connection Help over four sessions
The programme began with a device review and a first practice call. Two further sessions followed over two weeks at Puan Hamidah's pace. A large-print guide was laminated and placed beside the tablet. A refresher visit was made four weeks later.
After the Programme
Regular Saturday evening calls without any assistance
Puan Hamidah now calls her grandchildren independently every Saturday. Her daughter noted she had started referring to the sessions herself to explain to neighbours how to use similar applications.
The Situation
A retired couple where one partner had reduced mobility
Encik Rajan, 75, managed most household tasks but found grocery runs and the occasional appointment increasingly tiring to coordinate alone. His wife had reduced mobility and could not accompany him easily. Family lived in Seremban.
What Was Arranged
Recurring weekly errand plan, adjusted over two months
The errand programme began with a weekly grocery run and one appointment coordination per fortnight. The shared calendar was reviewed with the family monthly and adjusted as needs shifted.
Ongoing
A predictable weekly rhythm that the couple relies on
Both Encik Rajan and the family in Seremban describe the arrangement as one they no longer have to think about actively — it simply runs. The family said that knowing the calendar is maintained means they can plan their own visits without worrying about logistics.
Reach Cempaka
The team is reachable during working hours for any questions about arrangements or programmes.
Phone
+60 11-710 3772Address
No. 96, Jalan Mahkota,
75000 Melaka, Malaysia
Working Hours
Mon–Fri: 8:30am – 6:00pm
Saturday: 9:00am – 1:00pm
A few numbers
6+
Years in Melaka
140+
Families served
4.8
Average family satisfaction (out of 5)
3
Distinct support programmes
Melaka Social Welfare Appreciation 2024
For consistent, community-centred household support work across the Melaka Tengah district.
PDPA-Compliant Data Handling
Data practices reviewed against Malaysia's Personal Data Protection Act 2010.
Melaka Community Support Network
Member since 2022. Part of the local network connecting families with household support providers.
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